Gleaning’s from Ha Sifu
This weekend is the Ha Sifu workshop for Daoyin Chuan. Seems to be a feeling of excitement surrounding the workshop this year. Looking at those attending it appears to be a more intermediate/advanced group. Some are martial artists from different styles, even external arts. We are all looking forward to learning from a master this weekend.
Friday Night
First thing Sifu Fong Ha reminded me is that to learn others’ center is to discover my own. A lesson that he has been teaching me for years.
- It is all about equilibrium (dong jing).
- Best way to feel/learn equilibrium is to be as you are, especially in stillness.
- Small and slow is best to maintain awareness of equilibrium.
- Always touch the equilibrium and never the weight of others.
- Do not allow other’s to put the weight on you.
- During zhan zhuang be aware of how your body achieves and maintains equilibrium. How you body doesn’t fall down.
Simple lessons but for me a little challenging in overcoming old habits and maintaining the feeling.
Saturday
- Get really good at the ordinary to become extraordinary. Meaning standing and walking.
- Some walk with coins on the feet. Even tea cups full of water.
- In push-hands remain connected, no separation.
- In push-hands, touch is to remain light (like touching an iron-hot steel) and in-touch with equilibrium and not the weight.
- In push-hands, allow both yourself and partner to reach equilibrium before expanding from the center.
Note: This post is organic. It will be changing and growing over then next few days.
About confidence: Though he said it quite differently, my interpretation is that confidence comes from being at equilibrium with yourself and the standards you believe in. It is related to the concept that I am already the perfect me, or the perfect person to be me. That does not imply that I am perfect, I just already know myself perfectly when I am at equilibrium with myself. (as opposed to being in denial for example). I am also the one who is responsible to provide myself with the nurturing environment to allow and help myself grow toward perfection.
Semantics are at play here. If one defines perfect as being like God then no one is. If perfect is being complete/whole as a human being then yes, everyone is. Confidence in that we are complete/whole as a human being.